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Dale's Tale
“There’s a place for
everyone” -Dale
Building an airplane
model requires patience and persistence. Much the way he carefully builds
models, Dale is piecing together a better life than the one he has recently
experienced. Independent living was not an issue until he experienced
serious medical issues.
Dale is a third
generation mechanic. He worked for his father then earned a Master Mechanic
degree from Sinclair. Afterwards, Dale served five years in the Navy,
two-and-a-half in Vietnam on an assault boat until he was injured by a
rocket propelled grenade. Dale then came back and worked as a mechanic.
Around 1999, Dale had a stroke that rendered him unable to remember or do
much beyond basic living. “There are large gaps I don’t remember. Savings
lasted about three years, then ran out. Stuff got bad then.” Family
options ran out too. He found The Other Place and his journey back to
housing began.
Dale shares thoughts on
homelessness:
“You feel like you are always alone, even in a crowd. Most folks want to
belong and you don’t get to. It hurts the inner soul. To those who have
homes, don’t make assumptions about homeless folks, those stereotypes might
cause you not to want to help out.”
Through The Other Place
shelter and case management, Dale was placed at the Iowa Avenue Project
which is local permanent supportive housing for formerly homeless men. Dale
is there now and The Other Place continues to work with him. For his
future, Dale wants to regain more memory and “thinking ability”, and once
again drive and work.
Dale’s airplane model
and new life are similar, built one step at a time and each step needing a
fair amount of preparation to turn out right. A variety of tools assist
him, each having its own specialty. Piece-by-piece, step-by-step it takes
shape and begins to function. Done right, the end product is quite
beautiful.
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